Change and Strengthen.

DISCLAIMER: I am not a certified trainer! Make sure you consult experts before taking any of my advice (as good as it is )!

This is going to be my eighth year on the beach, and I’m happy with how things have gone thus far, but am I satisfied to the point of complacency?? NO way!

Every year is a new opportunity to get better, work smarter, and add to your game. I go into each new preseason with an open mind. I am constantly on the lookout for a better way to do things, or a crazy idea that might just work. I probably annoy Jen and Jeff with all of it, but I’m always applying a tweak here or there to see if it improves something in my game.  The game is changing so quickly and becoming so much more competitive each year I can’t afford to just do the same thing over and over, even if it has been successful in the past.  I know some people don’t agree with that thinking, hence the age old saying, “If it ain’t broke, why fix it?”  But, in the world of competitive sports, if you don’t adapt and change to stay ahead of the curve you run the risk of being passed by, by someone who IS willing to innovate and be a risk-taker.  

I’m not going into detail, but I believe this year Jen and I have improved on something that has been done a certain way for a really long time.  I’m also giving myself another option on offense- it’s still rough around the edges, but you have to give new ideas time to take hold.  We’ve played for a long time and mastered a lot of skills so sometimes it’s hard to be patient with new ones.  I know I’m being super vague, but hopefully it encourages some young players or coaches to get innovative with the game.  People might tell you you’re crazy, but if you believe in your ideas, I say, go for it.

One change I AM going to share with you here relates to my strength training routine.  I’ve touched on how to train in the gym for beach volleyball in some of my other blogs, but I want to spend a little more time on it because I want everyone to realize how important it is for a player’s game.  For the past four years I’ve subscribed to a weight circuit workout focused on moderate weight and lots of reps plus some sprint cardio in-between the circuits. So, for example, one circuit might look like this:

• 10 squats @ 115 lbs
• 10 burpies with pushups
• 15 rows @ 75 lbs
• 20 sit ups on a bosu ball
• repeat 3 times
• 2 minute sprint on elliptical machine or sprints on an inclined treadmill

That’s one circuit and we usually do four to five circuits in a workout.

I still love this kind of training and think it is much more sport (SAND volley) specific than Olympic lifts on their own.  In the past I would do this workout three times a week, but this year I wanted to increase my strength.  I can’t tell you why I chose to tinker with my strength, it was just an idea.  Then I thought more deeply about it, looking at the men’s game and how generally they are more powerful than the women. I have to assume this is because naturally they’re just stronger…. so I decided to learn from the disparity between men’s and women’s strength and adapt accordingly.  (I think the men can learn a lot from the women’s game as well, but that’s a whole ‘nother blog!)

I did that by committing one of my weekend days to lifting heavy for the duration of preseason.  I give myself more rest between sets to recover so that I can handle the extra weight.  I’m loving the results, I feel much stronger, AND what I didn’t see coming is that my endurance has gone through the roof!  It’s something I didn’t expect from weight lifting, but now that I think about it, it makes a lot of sense.  If I’m stronger, it’s easier for my body to do everything it’s called to do in volleyball and therefore it can handle playing longer.  I’ve always looked to cardio to improve my endurance, but I am so happy to have found this added benefit of increasing my strength through weight lifting! This revelation may seem obvious, but it wasn’t until I took control over my own training (when I started on the beach) that I really started paying attention to how things benefited or detracted from my performance.

I still believe, with longer rallies in the women’s game, that cardio endurance is very important, as well, which is why I’ve only dedicated one of my three days to lifting heavy, the other two I still do circuit training.

I’ve lifted since I was 14 (as a freshmen in high school).  We did Olympics lifts about 3 times a week in preseason and twice during season, though I did not continue to lift during club season.  Based on my own experience, and after speaking with my trainer, I think creating a strong base through lifting when you’re in high school and carrying it on through college is smart move for athletes.  Everyone is different and ready to begin lifting at different ages and you always have to listen to your body, but 14/15 years old is  usually a good starting point.  Playing indoor I always lifted heavy with less reps, maxing out every now and again.  It wasn’t until I started on the beach that I eventually switched to circuit training because, like I said, I think it’s more conducive to the demands of beach volleyball.

There are so many benefits to weight lifting, I could go on forever, but the last thing I will say is that it’s great for injury prevention.  With the demands these days on club athletes the amount of overuse injuries is through the roof.  Juniors need to be strengthening their rotator cuff muscles, back muscles, and hamstring muscles, among others, to prevent injury to shoulders, backs, and knees, which in my experience are the most common in volleyball players.

If you are in sports and take it seriously, you need to include weight lifting in your training plan.  Definitely consult professionals before you begin a lifting program, it is NOT something you can learn on youtube or from your friend! There are many places that train high school athletes (and adults looking to improve their game as well!), we work out at CDM Fitness (if you’re looking for one ), but if you are just starting out make sure you learn from an expert, bad lifting technique is way worse than not lifting at all.

Happy lifting!

The Transition.

A lot of people assume beach (or sand) volleyball and indoor volleyball are the same game, just that sand volley is played in the sand and with less people on a team…I can’t tell you how much that frustrates me.  Attention everyone: BEACH VOLLEYBALL IS IT’S OWN SPORT!!  The only thing that’s the same is some of the basic skills, such as passing and hitting, but even those have to be performed in much different ways in the beach game.  Therefore, you might understand why players have a hard time converting their indoor success to success on the sand.

So just HOW do you transition your game from indoor volleyball to sand/beach volleyball?  I am going to do my best to help you right now, giving you the best tips I can think of …

Number 1: GET USED TO THE SAND! No need for a partner, a coach or balls for this and it’s one of the most essential steps to a smooth transition. All you have to do is run in it, side shuffle in it, karaoke in it, skip in it, jump in it, sprint in it.  After you are done training or playing do twenty minutes of everything I just mentioned, alternating between each. Run in the sand around the court for those 20+ minutes and do different exercises as you go along each end line. I PROMISE you will feel an improvement the next time you play, as long as you don’t go back and forth between indoor and sand. However, even if you do alternate between the two it will definitely help your game in both disciplines, it just won’t have as profound an effect on your sand game.  This idea goes for every type of movement you might make while playing sand volley, you can do block jumps alternated with pulling moves and then do an approach back up to the net, in a kind of circuit- i.e. block jump on the left, pull line, approach jump on the left, block jump on the left, pull angle, approach on the right, block jump on the right, pull line, approach on the right…etc. I hope you get the idea and get creative with it.

Number 2: Save every dollar you can.  Sand volleyball requires you to travel to tournaments.  This can become expensive.  Wait tables, walk dogs, babysit, do whatever you can to add money to your beach volley account. It’s never too early to start, if you’re in high school or college and don’t have to pay for travel/lodging/expenses related to volleyball yet, take advantage of it and start saving your pennies for when you DO have to pay for everything! This is probably the hardest thing for players trying to transition to the sand to deal with, and it is an unfortunate part of the transition, but if you do everything I tell you here hopefully it won’t take as long to become successful and make a profit playing on the beach. In the meantime consider it a rite of passage, we’ve all had to go through it.  And on the plus side, the range of beach volleyball events is getting wider, there are a higher number of “developmental” tournaments where you can have a chance of making some prize money while not competing against the BEST in the world right off the bat.

Number 3: Be your own coach. This means so many things.  Be self motivated, push yourself when you think you have no more left to give physically OR mentally, BE DISCIPLINED, ask questions, pay attention, figure out who you need to talk to to get to tournaments. It also means watching players who are better than you and trying to emulate what they do, i.e. teaching yourself.  If you’re having a hard time with a certain skill have someone video you doing it on your phone and then watch and critique it yourself.  It’s amazing how clear some things are when you just watch it back on tape.  Set up practices, networking is huge in sand volleyball, but it’s also easy.  Meet people who are like minded and set up some training sessions where you end with a match.  And if all else fails, get out there by yourself, set up your lines and antennas and practice solo, people will most likely end up asking you to play.

Number 4: Learn the terminology and the importance of signs and communication. This is something I believe Jen and I are the best in the world at and it helps more than most people assume, don’t be most people, this is super important on the sand!  Some of the more unique terms and concepts:

• Pulling (I didn’t know what this was til WEEKS after I started training!)- as a blocker, if the opposing team has set the ball off the net giving the hitter less chance of hitting the ball down, you move off the net into a defensive position (usually with your hands up to dig overhand). This may be the most unique difference between sand and indoor!
• Poking (you cannot open hand tip on the sand!)- this can be done in a variety of ways and for a variety of reasons, it can be done on offense and defense, and occasionally to set. I think a photo best describes what a “pokie” is…if you look at my hand you can see it’s semi-closed and I’m making contact with the flat part between the knuckles on my pointer and middle fingers, you can also get the tip of your thumb in there if you think it gives you more control, also notice my arm is straight.

• Digging- you CANNOT take a “free ball” or a serve with your open hands, you have to get them together before you contact the ball. You also have to be ready to run down a line shot or a cut shot on defense.
• Hubby-wife- during serve receive it is essential you always talk about who has the middle ball! When someone serves down the middle and both players make a move to the middle and then pull apart because they each think the other is going to get it, this is called the hubby-wife.  ALWAYS call who’s middle it is! Say, “my middle” or “my call” before the serve.
• Blocking signs- this is basic, but essential.  Holding one finger behind your back on your right hand means you are going to block the other LEFT side hitter (who is on YOUR right) down the line.  Not the shot (unless you can get it), just the hit.  If you hold two fingers behind your back on your left hand it means you are going to block the other RIGHT side hitter (who is on your left) angle.  You can also PULL into these areas and your defender will still know what area to fill, because you’ve told them which areas you are taking on each hitter.
• Calling- after you set your partner it is REALLY important that you immediately look at the other team’s defense (don’t watch your set!) and tell your partner where the open area of the court is.  In basic terms, if the blocker is blocking line, the defender will be sitting in the angle so the setter needs to call LINE! If the blocker is blocking angle, the defender will make a later move to the line, you have to wait to see if they move and when they do you have to call ANGLE! or CUT! or CROSS!  And if the other team pulls off the net as your partner is going up to hit you must call NO ONE! (refer to the photo, Jen is screaming at me to poke to the open area)
• Communication- there is NO wrong way to communicate. The only bad communication is no communication.  Talk about everything.  Before the play, during the play, and after the play.  Tell your setter where you want your sets, high, low, inside, outside. Talk about where the other team is playing defense when your partner is hitting.  Talk about where they are weakest and where your team should be serving them- deep, short, to the left, right or down the middle…. etc. Use your imagination.

Number 5: DON’T get drawn into the party culture.  It’s hard to forgo Pier Ave. after the Hermosa Open, which I actually don’t suggest you do (unless you’re not 21 yet!), but you have to keep partying to a minimum.  People are fun, the surroundings are beautiful, and the parties are awesome, but your goal is to be a great beach volleyball player and that is at odds with being a party person.  Plus, you always have to be on the lookout for your next and better partner, if you develop a reputation for staying out late and drinking it will be hard to convince people to play with you.  I didn’t say abstain altogether, you have to enjoy your journey, I just said keep it to a MINIMUM.

Number 6: Learn about healthy living!! Moving and jumping in the sand is hard enough, add a 10 pound weight belt (i.e. muffin top) and it becomes even harder! Beach volleyball is a 24/7 job that includes watching what you eat all the time, yes there are times to splurge, but never times to completely let go, you always have to be on the wagon.  Getting enough rest and sleep is also part of the job, if you burn the candle at both ends your performance will suffer.  You have to make time during the day to sit and rest, use that time to focus on how you’re going to get better…or just zone out in front of the TV, your brain needs time to rest too

Number 7: Make sure your lifting/exercise regiment reflects what you need for the sand game.  Static Olympic lifts with heavy weight and a ton of time in between sets is not conducive to the explosive cardio based endurance the game calls for.  I don’t know if that makes sense and I’m not a certified trainer, it’s just my personal opinion that your weight routine needs to include cardio or minimal time between sets, like 15 seconds, with less weight and more reps.  There are only two of you out there, you have to be explosive for up to an hour with minimal rest between rallies, I don’t believe a simple Olympic lift-based weight routine will get you there.  Also, when you are doing cardio make sure you’re incorporating intervals, speed up for a little, sprint for a little, recover for a little then do it again.

Ok, that’s about all the info I can think of right now that needs to be known if you’re trying to transition to the beach.  I hope it helps!! If you have questions leave a comment and I will do my best to respond!

 

 

 

Health Matters!

On this past Tuesday I attended the Clinton Foundation’s Health Matter Conference.  I’ve learned a lot about health over the years from some of the best trainers, nutritionists and doctors in the business while training for volleyball, but hearing all the different ways experts are thinking about health care these days was absolutely enlightening.

It’s no secret that obesity is a problem in the USA. But one has to realize obesity causes other problems, that lead to even more problems, that cost the country and tax payers BILLIONS of dollars.  Therefore, this is not just a problem, it’s a CATASTROPHE which is projected to affect the next generation so profoundly that their life expectancy will be lower than ours for the first time EVER.

I am inspired by this.  I would say motivated, but as Dr. Deepak Chopra so convincingly stated at at the conference, “It’s not enough to be motivated.  Nobody does anything after being motivated.  The key to action is inspiration, after you’re inspired you never go back.”  I am so sold on the issue of obesity being one of the most important of our time that I am truly inspired to make a difference.  Even if I can only help one person improve their lifestyle, habits, and overall quality of life, then I think it’s worth it and I am determined to do it.

We don’t exactly know how health care is going to evolve in the near future, so for now we need to stop blaming the health care system.  WE are our health care system.  The “health care system” isn’t as broken as we as individuals and a society are broken.

We need to stop thinking that getting pills from the doctor’s office is the most effective way to reverse illness.  Pills are the EASIEST way to deal with how you’re feeling, but it’s not really FIXING how you’re feeling.  To modify Albert Einstein’s famous quote, “What’s easiest is not always right and what’s right is not always (or hardly ever) easiest.”  Going to the doctor’s office and buying prescription drugs costs money.  With the economy struggling the way it is, people should be paying much much more attention to getting in exercise, eating healthier, and using meditation. (I’m NOT telling you to stop taking your medications, just that adopting a healthier lifestyle CAN reduce the need for prescribed medication). Plus, health care and access to health care accounts for ONLY 10% of our health.  There is at least 40% of our health WE can control, the government doesn’t control it, our genes don’t dictate it, and not having access to health care does not affect that 40% of our health.

It can be daunting if you think the only way to become healthier is to eat perfectly and exercise everyday, that would be impossible.  Not even us professional athletes, whose job is in large part to take care of our bodies, can do that.  There are so many ways to improve your quality of life that won’t take a miracle to accomplish, BUT you have to do them CONSISTENTLY!!! Discipline is like a muscle, you have to exercise it or it atrophies and disappears.  Make your changes small and it will be more feasible to accomplish them on a regular basis.

Some ideas for easy ways to CUT calories:

• Stop putting sugar in your coffee (I did this half a year ago and I don’t even notice it missing!) AND THAT INCLUDES ALL THAT FAKE SUGAR STUFF!!
• After you drink your soda, keep the cup/bottle and refill it the rest of the day with water. (you save money doing this too!)
• Get your sandwich, etc. without cheese (I promise you will hardly notice!)
• Subway (No, I’m not sponsored by them) is always a great fast food option! It’s inexpensive and if you get a footlong you can split it between lunch and dinner.  That Subway diet is not a joke! And if you have to get something tasty on it, choose avocado instead of cheese, and get rid of the mayo!! Mustard is so much tastier!!
• If you need dessert after dinner, try some fruit, I know it doesn’t sound as appetizing, but after your taste buds get the sugary taste they were craving and the fiber fills you up you won’t even miss the unhealthier versions of dessert.
• If you’re not there yet I think hot cocoa is a good alternative, look for Swiss Miss Sensible Sweets Collection and make it with hot water or non-fat milk.

Some ideas for easy ways to BURN calories:

• WALK to the coffee shop on weekend mornings (even if it’s miles away!), walk the dog, take a walk after dinner, or park far away from wherever you’re going and walk.  I think you get what I’m saying, find ways to take more steps everyday!! (And carry mace if you’re worried about walking by yourself!  If you ever feel threatened make sure you let it be known you have mace and will use it, a proven technique for fending off unwanted attention)
• Sit on a swiss ball at your desk.
• Do squats, crunches, and pushups during commercial breaks, you can’t say you’re busy then.
• Simply go for a run, it really costs nothing.  All you need are shoes and there are brands that sell for $30, or if you’re really in need you can hit up your local thrift shop.  You will get a return on your investment!! (Fewer doctor’s visits)
• If you have time, there is no reason not to exercise! You can devise a workout (or look up one on the internet) that you can do entirely outside and for free!
• Basically, just move, even if you’re sitting down. Move.

If you’re tired before work or after work and don’t feel like it- know that, as Dr. Chopra said at the conference, “When you’re tired is the BEST time to exercise because it will GIVE you energy, and you will sleep better at night, which will give you even more energy.”  Being tired is NOT a good excuse to skip a workout.

Our country became obese at an excess of 200 calories a day.  With what I mentioned above you can easily eliminate those extra 200 calories a day and with a little hard work reverse the damage even more.  It will go slowly, you won’t notice results right away or even over a few months, but it will be working, even if it’s not obvious on the outside you can be assured it IS working on the inside and upstairs in your brain.

As Jillian Michaels mentioned during one of the panel discussions, if you can find something that makes it worth it to you, the consistency can become even less of a struggle.  Your incentive needs to be something you can draw on when you’re tired and unmotivated to make healthy choices.  It can be as vain as wanting to look good in your bikini (my reason ), to improve your relationship with your spouse, to be around longer for your children, or to help your children have a higher quality of life as they grow up OR ALL OF THE ABOVE!

And lastly, you can’t wait for help.  You have to be the help. If we as a community, as a society, and as a country are going to change it has to start with YOU.  Be the catalyst in your group of friends, in your family.  Be the inspiration that THEY need.  Order a salad at dinner or a side of veggies instead of fries.  Others will follow your lead.  The impact YOU can have on your small community of friends and family, simply by making healthy decisions, can cause a chain reaction that will reach so many more people than you can even imagine.

And if you’ve gotten this far and still don’t buy into what I’m saying just take an hour here and there when you’d otherwise be on Facebook or watching meaningless TV shows and educate yourself — your future self will thank you!

Take the first step today. Literally!!

What It Takes.

One of the most common questions I get asked is “what advice would you give young kids trying to succeed?”.

I always say number one is hard work.  Hard work is NOT just showing up to practice for two hours and being satisfied with getting through it.  Hard work IS showing up to practice a half hour early to work on stuff you’re not satisfied with. Then while in practice trying to be the best in every single drill and striving to be perfect at every single skill.  You should be pissed if you mess up, and definitely, absolutely, positively NEVER EVER laugh if you make a mistake! Hard work IS running sprints at the park on your day off to become faster than your teammates and opponents who AREN’T putting in the extra work.  Hard work IS hitting that wall, being completely exhausted, and finding your fourth/fifth wind to accomplish the goals in a drill.  It’s being determined to lift the most in the weight room, run the mile the fastest, and jump the highest.  It’s doing whatever it takes to be the best and once you’re the best, doing whatever it takes to become perfect.  You’re probably not working as hard as you possibly can right now, but it’s never too late to change that.

Number two is developing an unshakeable focus and mental strength. This, just like physical skill, takes practice and discipline.  It’s the difference between going through the motions in drills and really making sure you’re doing skills right in order to ingrain them into your brain so that once in competition you don’t have to think about it, you just do it.  Becoming a focused athlete means leaving everything outside the gym besides what you’re there to do.  Have a ridiculous amount of homework? It’s not going to get done while you’re at practice so you might as well not think about it while you’re in the gym.  Family trouble? Boy drama? In a fight with a friend? Same thing- leave it be while at practice or competition and stay focused on the present (a good life lesson as well!).  Another tool is visualizing before and after every practice and match.  If you did a particular thing wrong, visualize doing it the right way over and over before attempting it at the next session.  Playing a daunting opponent? Picture their weaknesses and see yourself exploiting them over and over again.  My favorite time to visualize is the night before at bedtime, that way when I go to sleep it really sinks into my brain.  The mental part of sports is JUST as important as the physical part, so it cannot be neglected (especially in volleyball)!

Number three is sacrifice.  You have to make succeeding a priority.  I can remember when I was a freshman in high school on varsity and my mom got soooo mad because my coach said I couldn’t miss a practice to celebrate my grandfather’s 80th birthday with my entire extended family.  You might say, well, it’s more important to be there for your grandpa’s birthday with the fam, but then you’re making that the priority (which is also perfectly fine if that’s what you want!).  Sacrifice is not easy, and I feel like it’s lost it’s meaning to some people.  I pretty much sacrificed a social life in high school to play three sports throughout the year, but I made varsity in every sport and went to the state championships in high jump my freshman year.  You have to decide how much you want to succeed and a good benchmark is what you’re willing to give up to do it…. Partying on the weekends? Spending a ton of time with a boyfriend/girlfriend?  Thinking about what you’re going to wear to school tomorrow rather than how you’re going to improve in (insert activity here)? You might not want to succeed bad enough.

Finally, say yes to opportunities! I can remember saying no to one particularly big opportunity in my life because I was scared of failing, but luckily my coach didn’t listen and put me on our top 18s club team as a sophomore anyway and I can’t tell you how thankful I am for that! Confidence is built by pushing your comfort levels (saying yes to an opportunity), doing something that scares you and conquering it. I used to hate practicing with people who were better than me because I’d get hammered (and even embarrassed in some situations), but that’s when I improved the most! Now I take the opportunity to practice with anyone who I think will give me a challenge even if there’s a good chance I’m going to lose and get frustrated and probably hate it while it’s happening.  Join teams and clubs and say hi to people at school, have all your doors open all the time, you never know what could come through for you.  Looking back, one of the things I’m most proud of is taking advantage of opportunities.  Most of the time it sucks at first, like playing beach volleyball. I didn’t know how it was going to go, but I wanted to give it a shot and I was terrible at first, however, I kept saying yes.  I said yes when veteran players asked me to play with them even though I didn’t think I was ready, I went to international tournaments when I had no idea what I was doing, but all that experience adds up and has helped me get to where I am today.  **I’m not saying just jump head first into everything that comes your way, but make sure you give each opportunity considerable thought and if it has the potential to make you more successful down the line, do it.

Those are my main pieces of advice…I feel it’s important to strive for success and to be the best not only for an individual’s future in sports or their career, but because it’s such a crucial cornerstone of American culture and I believe our country is suffering because this mentality is not as prevalent today as it might have been a decade or two ago, when our parents were growing up.  So suck it up, push through the pain, and kick some butt!!

 

Preparation!

Planning out my meals for the next week or so and making grocery lists to go along with it…actually kinda fun. #nerd

My basic plan looks like this:

For breakfast- greek yogurt with berries, dried & chopped dates, and walnut pieces- pretty much everyday.  If I eat clean all week I give myself pancakes at my favorite breakfast place (Haute Cakes) on Sunday morning

For lunch- usually a salad with all the fixin’s, my base is baby spinach and romaine lettuce with balsamic vinegar & extra virgin olive oil for dressing, then I add all the veggies I can find (leftovers are good!), a little gorgonzola cheese and some pine nuts- bam!

I usually need a snack post afternoon cardio before dinner so that’ll consist of egg whites with 1/2 an english muffin, an apple with natural peanut butter, a protein shake, or veggies and hummus.

For dinner-  I want to get creative and make new things from all the cook books I received for Christmas, I’m going to keep things simple for the rest of this week, especially since I’m doing a juice cleanse tomorrow.  Planning on making grilled salmon with sweet potatoes on Friday, but next week my big challenge will be a healthier version of the Barefoot Contessa’s Jambalaya!

I’m fired up, hope it stays this way!

Resolution support!

Resolution support!

Some more detailed and scientific reading about sticking to your New Year’s Resolutions if you’re interested. Most of it seems a bit excessive, but I agree with the basic message for sure, mental and physical preparation is necessary! Also, I love the part about framing and self talk, so helpful!!

Resolute.

January 2nd, 2013. This is my beginning. January 1st is for nursing hangovers, January 2nd is for resolutions.  Yes, I had a pretty good 2012, but there are LOTS of things I can improve upon.  Number one- diet.  AGGGHHH, how I hate being disciplined with my food.  I LOVE pastries and wine and cheese and bread (especially pretzel bread), I should just go live in France. And apparently my “moderation” isn’t really moderation, because when I allow myself to eat those things, even in small amounts, I gain weight.  So those are out! Along with dessert, hash browns, and chips.  Just writing it is painful. Number two- learn. I have gone so long now without really learning something new. I want to challenge my brain, keep it in good working shape, and hopefully stave off decline for as long as possible and in order to do that all research says you need to keep learning.  So, at the top of my list I have master Spanish and tackle the guitar.  And stick with it!  I tend to start extracurricular activities and not see them through…that can actually be another resolution…Number three- see things through.  Like this blog, for example, I would love to be able to say I will post once a week at least, but based on history that would be a risky statement.  So this year I am going to stick with it, stick with the blog, stick with Spanish or guitar lessons, stick with eating healthy!

That sounds like a lot for now so I’m going to just go with those resolutions for 2013.

Now how do I set myself up to succeed? It’s not just enough to say I want to do these things and try with all my might to see them though.  No, I have to prepare my butt off.  Eating healthy requires me to make sure I grocery shop every week and keep my fridge stocked with healthy options.  Before I go to practice I need to get up a little earlier and pack healthy snacks and a lunch.  On Sundays I need to plan dinners for the week so that when the time comes I can’t use not knowing what to cook as an excuse to go out.  For my second resolution I’m going to have to do some research, find out where there are lessons around where I live and create a concrete schedule where I’m expected to show up to classes.  And as far as sticking with things goes….I’m not sure yet, maybe being more organized throughout my day.  I’m really great about scheduling volleyball stuff, practice and gym time, but then I leave everything else on my to-do list for “whenever I can get to it”.  I will try to create a more structured daily schedule for myself with time to blog, time to grocery shop, time to clean the house, time to write emails, time to nap….

The good thing is that I can see how worth it it will be to follow through on my resolutions. Motivation is key, so I think if I can stay focused on how my resolutions will enhance my life it will be easier to stick with them.  And I don’t think they’re unmanageable, I didn’t say I want to be supermodel skinny by May or Taylor Swift by the end of the year.

Writing this was therapeutic for me so I hope you were able to take something from it as well and I just want to say good luck with your resolutions this year and I hope you succeed because we can ALL be better versions of ourselves and we should never stop striving to grow!  One last thing! I think we can all resolve to be nicer to each other, when you want to honk or yell at someone or say something bitchy, let’s just not.  It won’t hurt you and it will preserve someone else’s entire day or even week.  Cheers to 2013!!

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